OUYANG: hey hey we’re the monkeys!
ME: and people say we monkey around
but we’re too busy singing
to put anybody down
ME: miss ME
OUYANG: like crazy!
hahaha
ME: aweeeeee
OUYANG: i amused myself by giving advice to a father who wants to raise a feminist daughter of five
ME: I did that too
OUYANG: i see that…dear FSM it takes ME so long to write a comment that five people lap me in the mean time
ME: if you just let the typos fly you can write much faster
OUYANG: hahaha…i should try that sometime…
OUYANG: oh noes! MElissa at shakesville is claiming to be the “queen cunt”…i thought you owned that title!!!!11!
hahaha
ME: Nah- she’s the queen cunt of fuck mountain, I’m queen of the universe
different princpalities
OUYANG: oh ok…just checking
ME: actually- different queendoms
OUYANG: [wink]
Sent at 3:19 PM on Wednesday
OUYANG: damn…i am behind on my shakes…i have no idea what is bringing the wrath
ME: the same thing that has been pissing me off- liberal white dudes and their sexism
It’s nice to know i am not the only one driven to near nuclear explosions
OUYANG: i am trying to find some threads
i have been told that i lose my point when i get emotionally invested in the argument…so i have backed the fuck off lately
ME: the periodically speaking threads- one by liss and one by jeff fecke where he apologizes for not picking up on the sexism sooner
Guys never get told they are losing the point when they get emotional
OUYANG: i just saw that
i know…gah it pisses ME off…
i should have saved my AIM chat from last night for royal amusement
ME: ohhhhhhhh yes
and since sexist arguments are almost always the same- it’s easy to develop a few biting retorts that work universally when you analyze on fight
OUYANG: yup yup yup
ME: Like “but I clean and cook and care for kids!” Big Fucking deal. You take care of your house and children like you are supposed to
No one gets a pat on the head for doing that. It’s like “I wiped my own ass today”
OUYANG: i know!
BTW i love kate harding
ME: I am really pissed off that an essay about WOMEN gets turned into all about how boys are mistreated
And I love kate harding too
OUYANG: three times in three days i was referred to as “domestic” b/c of my cooking…of course i enjoy it, it’s in my biology!!!
gah!
ME: can’t win for losing
either all we are good for is house keeping domesticity or we are wanton sluts who can’t take care of ourselves
OUYANG: i know that there are facets of feminism…and i know that bigotry and stereotypes transcend all class, gender blah blah blah…it’s the extremes we are dealing w/ here…
ME: yep
OUYANG: Men are not declared gay on the spot (as if that is an insult) for enjoying cooking…if they were, all the chefs on fucking TV would be gay
ME: I know- and CHEFS are always Men, cooks are women
even with my friends who are professional level chefs, if they have a vagina they are COOKS
OUYANG: i know i know…it is frustrating as hell to try to explain that to anyone b/c they start crying “you’re being a reverse sexist” or soME horse shit like that
ME: OMG_ I know. Or “Angry much?” Yes i am angry, deservedly so
OUYANG:
it is so hard when people we see as “good guys” lash out like that
ME: it’s the hardest
when it’s people you like
but that is the nature of sexism, it’s freaking everywhere
you can’t escape it by surrounding yourself with good people
OUYANG: yup…my fav was when my friend dragged out the “what do you say to the women who don’t think like you”
and “you have cognitive bias…two women could hear that comment and only you take offense b/c you are looking for sexism
ME: What women? I’ve Met exactly one and she was a raving nut case Ayn rand fan
OUYANG: well i told him i thought they were self-defeating…
maybe not right…but that’s MHO
ME: I would have told him that maybe they wouldn’t talk about it in front of him cause they know he’s a sexist, but to other women they would
OUYANG: ugh…hindsight
but i do know women like that…but here’s a surprise…they are all SAHMs or republicans
usually both
ME: Yes, but like i said, sexists are predictable. That argument will come up again and now you have new ammo
OUYANG: true true
ME: And those women who are SAHMs, ask them once their kids are all school aged and they are bored to freaking tears cleaning toilets everyday
OUYANG: oh, one of them asked ME who took care of my kids while i was working…
implying that only SAHMs provide that service…
ME: I know- i spend as much time with the Kid as SAHM’s do, but I bet i know my kid better
OUYANG: probably…b/c i get limited time i make use of it…talk about school, etc
ME: yep
and cause you aren’t tied to a house all day, you prolly like yourself better and are happier as a mom
OUYANG: oh yes…in fact i have been going a little stir crazy in my job search
i fucking hate hawaii…obama got 76%!!!
gah!
but things rain sexism here…i am not surprised…and the white hatred is huge
ME: Its becoming inevitable
I am so happy i live in a blue state and don’t HAVE to vote for him in Nov
I don’t know if we have write in spaces for president
If we do- I’m putting in Hil
If not- I’m voting socialist
Sent at 3:50 PM on Wednesday
OUYANG: hahaha
nice one
OUYANG: hey! ron i am a racist sexist ass paul is out?!?!
ME: what
OUYANG: did he give up yet???
ME: about time
OUYANG: i haven’t confirmed yet…
jeff fecke says that paul took his $73 million and went home
ME: I can’t find the news
I want to take 73 million home
OUYANG: damn…i don’t think it’s true yet
ME too!
shit i would split it w/you!
ME: If I turn myself into a racist, sexist, libertarina candidate
can I get 73 million
and btw- libertarina is my newly coined word
OUYANG: i think so…i think it’s in the job description
ME: damn