I have a long and tedious history of educating the boys around me about feminism and the ways women are kept down. I can always see the conversations coming from a thousand miles away, saying the same things over and over and over again about how “women can’t stop rape, only rapists can” or having the same argument with same boy that I’ve had a million times. This is why feminism 101 exists. This is why we get tired. Why the fuckity fuck do we, the oppressed, have to educate the privileged over and over and over.